Month: June 2023

With Kindness and Respect

With Kindness and Respect

Recently, I had the opportunity to meet the 2023 James Beard Award Best Chef Southeast winner, Terry Koval.   Just a few days before connecting with him at his Decatur, Georgia restaurant, The Deer and the Dove, I had been sitting in the Lyric Opera of 

Sweet Life. Encore!

Sweet Life. Encore!

We were celebrating my parents’ marriage the last time we saw “Sweet Life” with a garden cake, sparkling flutes, joy, and a flashback to their wedding day. We’ve returned to the theme in all of its goodness. I find that as much as I’m present 

Musing.

Musing.


We’ve had the pleasure of spending time in a number of galleries lately and we’re happier for it. Long ago we dismissed the notion that when we enter a museum, we must see everything. Who wants to run by works of art as if we’ve entered an obstacle course?


Here are two shows featuring artists and their contemporary portraits. One in Chicago and the other in New York. I’d long to see attention for Juan de Pareja since I first learned of his existence back in the 80s. A quick trip for love to NYC made the show at the Met the icing on the cake. This exquisite show draws from the well of research by the extraordinary Arturo Schomburg in the 1920s. More of his story in a future post.



Enslaved by Velázquez and a painter himself, Juan de Pareja was rumored to be responsible for some of the more well-known works attributed to the famous artist. Newer research seems to bear that out. Time will tell.



The Met’s show highlights the period and contextualizes what life might have been like for this enslaved artist who traveled everywhere Velázquez went including to the Vatican. One heart-wrenching gallery includes both the central portrait of Juan de Pareja with Velázquez‘s signed document “freeing” him and his progeny (on the condition that he remained enslaved four additional years) inside a fading book positioned squarely in front of his portrait. Hauntingly sad doesn’t begin to describe how I felt standing there.




One of my all-time favorite works. It is housed at the Art Institute of Chicago but is currently on loan for this show.






José Rates by Juan de Pareja


Portrait art Juan de Pareja


Velázquez Book freeing Juan de Pareja from slavery metropolitan museum of art New York




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And then we return to Chicago for Patric McCoy’s show of 80s Black gay life downtown through photographs thoughtfully curated by Juarez Hawkins at Wrightwood 659.




Chicago Black Gay leisure 80s art Wrightwood 659





Golden

Golden

Now that we’ve (partially) caught our breath, we’re just starting to look at some of the photos from two weeks ago. For the second year, Onion Dip for Breakfast has attended the James Beard Awards and it has been thrilling! As you can imagine, half